The Power of Listening: A Conversation with Chris Voss

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The Psychology of Negotiation: Episode One

In this episode of The Conversation, I talk with Chris Voss, former lead FBI hostage negotiator and bestselling author of Never Split the Difference, about what great negotiation really looks like.

Drawing on decades of high-stakes experience, Chris explains why the best negotiators don’t win by talking louder—they win by listening better. He shares how emotions shape our decisions, why curiosity is more effective than assumptions, and how tactical empathy can build trust without requiring agreement.

The conversation explores practical techniques anyone can use, including mirroring, labeling, strategic silence, and Chris’s famous “late-night FM DJ voice.” Chris also explains the difference between influence and manipulation and why understanding the person across from you is often the key to moving a conversation forward.

About Chris Voss

Chris Voss is a former FBI lead kidnapping negotiator, bestselling author of Never Split the Difference, and founder and CEO of The Black Swan Group, a negotiation, training, coaching, and consulting organization that teaches people how to achieve better outcomes in high-stakes conversations.

Recognized globally as a leading authority on negotiation, Chris developed his approach through decades of crisis negotiation experience. Today, he and The Black Swan Group apply those principles to business, sales, leadership, difficult conversations, and high-stakes communication through The Black Swan Method® and Tactical Empathy®.

Never Split the Difference has introduced millions of readers around the world to Chris’s negotiation methodology. Through The Black Swan Group, Chris and his team help people go beyond understanding the concepts in the book and develop negotiation as a practical, repeatable performance skill through training, coaching, practice, and live experiences.

The Black Swan Group offers in-person negotiation training, live and self-paced online negotiation training, coaching, keynote speaking, and advanced negotiation experiences for business owners, leaders, sales professionals, and other professionals who want to become more effective dealmakers.

 

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